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How to Flirt with a Boy | Teen Dating Tips

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Learn how to flirt with boys in this teen dating advice video with expert Shallon Lester.

Hey guys. My name is Shallon and I’m here to help you with all the questions you might have about love, lust, romance, and everything in between. For more, visit me on twitter @downtownshallon or be sure to check out my website shallononline.com. Ladies, one of the most valuable skills you can learn is how to flirt. And I am here to teach you. Flirting, contrary to what you might believe, is very, very subtle. It isn’t something that’s grandiose or loud or obnoxious. It’s something that’s quiet and demure and very charming. If you want to flirt with a boy, you don’t have to go over the top. You have to do just a few simple things. Number one, make eye contact. This can be actually kind of scary, cause it’s nerve wracking to look the boy you like in the eye. But if you can do it for just, like, a second or two, literally that’s all it takes. Look away, smile, and look back. You will blow him away. Number two, smile. I say this all the time, but it’s so true. Smile as often as you can. I’m not saying you shouldn’t have emotions, or show it when you’re upset, but if you bring up a conversation with him, try to keep it something positive. so you’re smiling and you’re face is glowing, you guys are laughing together. Cause, if you laugh together, you’re bonding. He doesn’t even realize it, but you are. Also girls, it’s important to stroke a man’s ego. So, if you notice he’s really good at something, don’t be afraid to tell him. Be like, “Hey, you’ve got a really good jump shot, that’s pretty good, maybe you could teach me sometime.” Easy, complimentary, and it opens the door for you guys to hang out or talk more. How simple is that? And if he acts weird, whatever, he’s got weird hair anyway. You don’t need to date him. Also ladies, it’s important to remember that you are very mature at this age, but boys, not so much. This, unfortunately, might be a theme throughout your life. Girls are always going to be more mature and more thoughtful than boys are. So, cut them some slack. If a guy still treats you like you guys are 10 years old and just buddies on the playground, he might just not be that mature yet. Don’t take it personally. He will get there, and by the time he does, you’ll be a lean, mean, flirting machine.
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  1. just tell them you want the d. Its that easy! 100% success rate!

  2. I feel like I’m the most mature in my grade based on dating. The guys at my
    school make fun of me when I have a crush and think I wierd. I mean, it’s
    part of life ain’t it? 

  3. michelle yakovenko

    How do you win Back your BF ,if he broke up with you over “lack of time

  4. CeazerStayPimpn

    Like if you’re watching this and you’re a guy XD

  5. Dark Pr0phet 12

    Girls will always be more mature than boy? I don’t think so a lot of the
    girls in my classes are very immature. It’s also a little bit sexist to
    make that stereotype.

  6. I started flirting with my crush and he started flirting back! Now, we both
    like each other, SCORE! I’m so happy that now me and him are the cutest
    couple in our grade!

  7. But if people are bored with what is common, then why should I do the
    chasing? Men always chase the good looking girls. Why not be different?
    Make yourself available, but stand out by not texting the next day, not
    always making yourself always available, not prioritizing her in first
    moments of a relationship of interest?

    I would really appreciate some logic on this.

  8. “they haven’t matured yet”
    1. I am the smartest person in my class AND am really cool
    2. I am way more mature than probably 80% of kids in my grade.

  9. I see a lot of people keep on talking about Troplusfix Dating Secrets (just
    search it on google). But I’m uncertain if it is good. Have you ever tried
    using this popular dating course?

  10. Henrik Tolvtin

    as a guy i can say this would actuly be the shit
    almost garanted succes,iwould atleast catch the hook

  11. Dian Mel Trejo

    Boys are dangerous

  12. It worked he asked me to school dance

  13. MerissaStar MSP

    You know you’ve reached rock bottom when you have to watch this video


  14. How is that one random strand of hair going into her face not bothering
    her. Its basically in her fucking eye!! I got nothing from this video I
    only could focus on her eye! Is anyone else like this or am I just strange?

  15. Kayla Elizabeth


  16. Cesar McKnight

    I did it but he was taken and his girlfriend got mad at me

  17. Møñît Thåkûr

    As a boy…..if any girl does it….she might make the boy nervous and
    thats really not good…-_-#

  18. Bonding on the board!!!

  19. kiss your hand 10 times and say your crushes name 15 times, Share this
    comment and your crush will ask you out tomorrow !!

  20. Pregnant Koots

    Heres an idea tell him you fucking like him for christ sake who the fuck

  21. Ok, so I joke around with my crush, but I don’t know. He gets somewhat
    frustrated. What should I do?

  22. Pregnant Koots

    Heres an idea tell him you fucking like him for christ sake who the fuck

  23. But what if he hates you

  24. “Girls are always going to be more mature and more thoughtful than boys
    are” Lol. Gotta love the sexist stereotype. 

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